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Love has a funny way of highlighting someone’s best traits, sometimes at the expense of ignoring clear warning signs. Red flags in relationships don’t always appear as major, obvious issues. They can show up subtly, through things like passive-aggressive comments, controlling tendencies, or emotional oversharing. No matter how solid, loving, or exciting your relationship is, you’ll inevitably experience the occasional annoyance or quirk that drives you up the wall. But we’re not talking about those minor frustrations.
The signs below point to deeper problems, ones that could indicate toxic patterns and, in some cases, mean the difference between a relationship flourishing or falling apart.
Here are seven relationship red flags you shouldn’t ignore, according to relationship experts.
1. They give you no support when you’re going through a stressful situation.
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When you’re overwhelmed—whether it’s due to family stress, career pressure, or anything else—your partner should offer emotional support, not add to your stressful situation. They don’t need to solve your problems, but their presence should be comforting.
If you’re left feeling alone, or like your pain doesn’t matter to them, it’s a strong signal that your emotional needs are being overlooked, shared Dr. Amy Marshall, a psychology professor, during a 2023 interview with SELF.
“Simply providing physical affection, like a hug or kiss, or just re-affirming their belief in your abilities and the greatness of who you are can help you feel so much better,” the relationship expert added.
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